For a person who is candid and communicative..its easy expressing his thoughts ! thoughts,an expression of heart, feeling and soul, finds its shape in words!! but .. what about those who are introverts!! i started thinking about this issue... when i confronted a friend who was madly in love wih a girl but could hardly express it! i told him a number of times to go ahead and propse his love!! but his courage failed!! i mean.. i shouldnt use the word Failed... because he hardly tried speeling his thoughts aloud!!
its not jus him... mostof us turn introverts in certain situations! even the most communicative of us .. find it difficult expressing our thoughts..often when its most needed!! why is this happening??
maybe... when we are still not clear in our thoughts..our words get muffled and finally nothing reaches the other person!
wat ever its...its not gna help either anyone!! oops... y are my words failing me now!!!!
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In my opinion, words fail because we attach too much importance to the reaction of the other person if we were to say what we intend to say. We keep thinking and worrying about what if they get me wrong, what will happen then, how will i rectify things then etc etc. as a result we have too much to think and worry about rather than the thing at hand and hence the courage fails.
Its better if you give a damn about the rest and shove it in the face what you really feel and then back yourself to handle whatever the consequence maybe. But for that you need to have a great understanding / friendship with the other person.
indha blog yaara pathi ezhuthina-nu enakku therinju aaganum
but...true feelings are often not conveyed through words..
agreer. but i think it is more to do with feeling self-conscious. most occasions when words have failed me are when i've felt self-conscious.
what if you are always self-concious?
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