When caught in position when reality is so damn cruel that neither can u tell the world that u a re truly not comfortable nor does your “You” permit you to show the dejection; the only other way that charms the situation out is being truly differently indifferent!
When words don’t suit the situation, indifference makes its presence. I wonder if it ever solves the problem.
Its totally a different thing if someone decides not to solve a problem. Indifference is a subtle reflection of a person who wants temporary relief from the problem or rather just wants to escape from the situation for that moment.
Having said this, indifference is sometimes a worthy weapon. A weapon which is effective because no words are poured out and more than often its up to the other person to guess there is something wrong with the person who is being indifferent. This would induce a bit introspection, it’s a rather a crude cold way of saying “I m pissed off”.
But what if pople never get the “I m Indifferent Signal”.. Nothing …! Well yeah that’s exactly what happens most of time. You get nothing out of the situation!
If its not you best mush or your gang with whom you are being “ differently Indiffernt” then for sure the difference is not gonna be recognized. You would end up being gloomy and that’s it!
Now I am confused, when should I let my words take charge and when should I make the Indifference my Arsenal?
Ahem.. If u folks are wondering why on earth I cam up with this different post on indifference, well…. I just had to face one such situation recently wherein for once I lost my cool and had to feature indifference written across my face..!
8 comments:
Indifference is not a solution at all...
If u r pissed off.. u r... why hide it or cover it up with indifference... Coz u'd any way end up gloomy... u have all the rights to express that u r pissed off! SAY IT!
Always the "Ek maar 2 thukda" policy works without fail! Say what u have 2 say!
kabhi kabi.. isae phas jaathae hain ki ham maar bi nahin sakthae!
Now now, should I comment or should I remain indifferent? :P
as u plz Naren!!
we will take it offline! cant we!
u ve changed ur blog site's background...
see wat i observed..
Im not trying to be indifferent ;-)
Hmmm..
Indifference is not a tool. it sometimes a way of life. when a thing does not hold importance to you, when the result of what is going on in a process that does not concern you, that is indifference.
for example, the fact that in germany, an old woman died today due to an heart attack to you is of no significane. when you are involved, you can never be indifferent. there are feelings that are present, ones that you chose not to display. you are not indifferent, you feign indifference. the very fact tat you came and made a blog about it shows your in-indifference.
and i shall totally agree with Kautilya... when there is an emotion, the best possible resort is to show it. phasne ki baath aathi hi nahin. tum chao tho tum har situation ko handle kar sakthey ho. par hamesha yaad rakhna, a moment of pain now is better than ill feelings carried on for later!!!!
Cheers
cant really say if its a wealthy weapon. each 1 perceive differently. thou i remain silent in most of those situations but reaised tht many of them wud prefer u tell something rather being indiffrent.. i changed my way.
push!
whom should we 'tapkai-fy'?? Ur PM or jus the onsite-wala?
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