Wednesday, April 09, 2008

The Wait


"She would be home anytime now. Had she been caught up with work she would have called me. Maybe it’s the omni-present traffic that’s making it late.
She would have called if she knows she would be late.
No clue what plans she would have for the weekend. I wanted take her to the temple. Maybe she would be catching up with her friends or would be working on weekends or would be huddled in her room married to her computer for two full days.
What would she want for the dinner? Maybe her regular chapattis and dal sabji or maybe she would want to indulge in rich pulav?
This girl drives me crazy, keeps me guessing what she is up to."

Suddenly, she glances on the photo hung in the drawing room. Its the Wedding Snap of her daughter.
A drop of tear greets the onset of realization.
All that remains are her thoughts that are here to stay!
Weird, Isn’t it! A mom would love to have her daughter married ("married away" = "Kalyanam panni Kodukardhu" in Tambram vocab) and yet would put on the pain of being away from her daughter...However said Childbirth meant lot of joyous pain, maybe Childbirth is the beginning of lots of joyous pain.

22 comments:

Hare said...

I am still trying to figure out what is more beautiful about your thoughts - your sense of anticipation or the sweet demeanour and openness to empathise with motherhood in this regard........

dushy said...

It was a treat.Indeed one of ur best posts.Very well-written with the apt feelings that the blog had wanted.

Go Pushy Go.

PS:Change ur Profile name to Pushkala Anand.And post some good pics which u have clicked.Actually pics offer a visual treat!

pushkalAn& pattabhiraman said...

@ HAre...
Thanks dude .

dushy..
U seem to be so bothered that i still retain my dad's name as my surname.. seri... inimae blog layum SuhAn& or PushkalAn& nu podaraen

Shrividya said...

I like the way you open the situation with a vivid description full of details..

Beaaautiful !!!!!!!
....Amma manansu irukke....adukku ide illai... Luvved the last line.


See

http://www.indusladies.com/forums/blogs/meenloch/retired-and-happy-a-story-508/

My attempt to write short story on retired couples :-)..

Unknown said...

sure, some pain are much more pleasurable than any happiness.

but happiness is niether pain or pleasure, Happiness is above pain or pleasure.

ArUn raFi said...

nice one..sweet and simple ..felt nice reading it itself..

ATT said...
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pushkalAn& pattabhiraman said...

Onnnum illa appu... do u think i will let u know only thru a Blog.......

Cheers
Pushkala

ATT said...

I clearly stated to take it in lighter vein! :)

CRD said...

lovely thought. mebbe a lo of moms go thru this feeling.

are u married yet? has ur mother gone thru this?lusgb

pushkalAn& pattabhiraman said...

yupz dude

Suchi said...

Engeyo padiththadu: "Ungal kuzhandaigal ungalukku 21 varudangal kuththagaikku vidappatta uyirgal."

And it looks like the tenure of the lease is going to be even shorter when we are parents!

Preethika said...

It was really moving... i could absolutely imagine my mom here...

Suchi said...

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Matangi Mawley said...

tht was a beautiful post!
n i love u'r name.. pushkala.. it s my mom's name too! :)
u ve a beautiful blog!

Anonymous said...

Wow...lovely...emotions extremely well weaved into words...loved it..
the best part was...it was absolutely free of typos Push!!
-Kavi.

hasHAN hazaRIKA said...

starting was really good..
short and crunch..
keep posting!!

•sowmya• said...

amazing beginning..!
and the way the thoughts proceed was simply smart..!

keep up the work..!

Sandeep Balan said...

wow...the feelings taht such a post required are all dealt with great finesse...cheers!

Unknown said...

Thats really true.
It is the beginning of Joyous pain !!
Nice post..keep up !

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poorna pattabhiraman said...

loved it....