Monday, September 10, 2007

Forward!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

for 2 years i had consciously steered away from posting any FORWARDS related stuff in this blog. But this forwarded "THOUGHT" , "MESSAGE" or "CRAP" ( as i fondly call the forwrds spamming my inbox), has found an echo in me.


In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman ......"What kind of man are you looking for?"She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking."Do you really want to know?"Reluctantly, he said, "Yes."She began to expound... As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself. I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man. I am in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money. I need something more." I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life." He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.She said, " I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally because I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man." I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for perfection. Financially because I don't need a financial burden. I am looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong Enough to keep me grounded. I am looking for someone who I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy. God made woman to be a helpmate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face.He said, "You're asking a lot."She replied, " I'm worth a lot."

Oh! all i could say after i read this was ... " HOW TRUE". Marriage brings to families together and more importantly, two individuals who are open and ready to respect each other.!!!

I m sure my Mr.Right would be mumbling " not another Relationship post!!!"
all is far in love,war and ofcourse with words,dude!!


Cheers
Pushkala

4 comments:

Shrividya said...

Luvved it !

Suchi said...

It's like the line I read somewhere: 'I'm ready to see you wear the pants in the family, just make sure you earn them'

SamY said...

** I am not referring to money. I need something more." I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life.

Thats asking for BIG trouble!

** Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

a perception again :). depends on how much the couple trusts in each others judgment and willing to hear. if taken in right spirit difference "can" spice up life.

** In order to be submissive, I must respect him.

This is one statement I totally agree :)

** God made woman to be a helpmate for man.

BOLLOCKS! IMHO a man & a women can together be at their best far beyond what they could alone. of course if they choose to complement one another.

interesting fwd though

Preethika said...

Timely... and real good fwd...

And as you say... really true!!!